Body-language tricks to being attractive+Happy Easter to you guys..

You want the inside scoop on how to suzz out if someone has a crush on you? breed some feel-good vibes on a date, or even figure out whether that cute person sitting across from you is dying for a kiss...(YEA! A KISS) Believe it or not, the answers to all these questions and more can be found in the mysterious science of body language. Do you want to know? Then check the answers below.


1. Appear confident on a date even if you’re nervous inside. 
People who project confidence stand erect — shoulders up, chest out. Confident people also walk slightly more quickly than average, swinging their arms slightly like they’re in a march. The average blinking rate is 8 to 16 blinks per minute. If you slow yours to four, you give the impression you’re cool and in control. 


2. Show someone you’re interested.
With people we like and admire, we mirror their body behavior. If the date goes well, mirroring is something you’ll do naturally, but you can also intentionally mirror the other person’s gestures and posture. It may feel weird, but the other person will just think you’re getting along really well.


3. Recognize the signals that indicate someone is interested in you. 
Look for preening signals. Preening is what animals do to make themselves more attractive. In humans, some basic examples would be arranging your clothes, touching your hair, or stroking your arm. These signs may seem obvious, but people miss them all the time in a dating situation, especially men(from now on i will take note).


4. A confident man will catch a woman’s attention. 
When it comes to body signals, men don’t have a great range of options because in traditional courtship, women give the green lights and men make the approach. The best thing a guy can do is dress right, look confident in the ways I’ve mentioned and keep an eye out for a woman’s “green light” gestures. 


5. Be careful when initiating casual physical contact; you don’t want to look desperate or clumsy.
Men should brush the point of a woman’s elbow while they’re talking. Just give it a light touch, not a grab or a squeeze. Leave it there for no more than three seconds. She’ll be aware of it and her response will tell you how she feels. If she’s not enjoying the date, it will feel like you’re touching an electric wire. Women, on the other hand, should target a man’s hand and lower arm to capture his attention. 


6. Learn to harness some control over your own body language through role play. 
We actually recommend that people take home videos and role-play situations with friends. A lot of people don’t even know what they’re doing until you show them on film. Once you see what your habits are, you can make a determined decision to unlearn or improve them. 


HAPPY EASTER TO MY DYNAMIC VIEWERS!